BAD AND PROUD .... Good Guys finish last

I am on a plane to Pittsburgh. I was in Boston for 24 hours ... working with less than 4 hours sleep yet I cant seem to sleep on this flight ...

Your guess about the reason is as good as mine, so why not do something constructive and stop guessing ...




GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST ...



this is a very common cliche ... something that I have heard and referenced many times over the last several years ...
I never really put a lotta of thought into why this was ... I was quite content with conquering all the spoils that always seemed available to "BAD" guys such as myself .....


Hey its a long flight so let's put some thought into it :)

• Why would a woman give more time to the guys who doesn't give a shit about her as opposed to the nice guy who really likes her?
• Why is "Mr Popular" who is a known womanizer a more attractive catch than the regular guy who wants an exclusive relationship ?
• Why would a woman in a seemingly great relationship give it up to someone who sings a song that she likes?

If I was to be frank and honest I would tell you that I really have no problems with things being the way they are, and I really don't care why things are this way ....

I mean WHY ASK WHY ? right?

I mean more young boys aspire to be popular dudes that get all the chicks than to be that dude that gets thats one good chick and settles down.

Men in good relationships when in the presence of gyalstas don't like to be referred to as "one burners" and often offer reasons why they put down the "fast" life

So I guess I'm saying boys aspire to be BAD GUYS and GOOD GUYS often don't seem proud to be GOOD GUYS

IMAGE IS EVERYTHING

• People,at times, assume success solely on image
• If someone looks like they are wealthy in peoples minds they are
• If something looks like fun in people's minds it is
• most people's perception is their reality

So people like to feel like they are doing well, people like to think that others admire them, people have a natural self love and often do whatever it takes to be perceived in the manner in which they want to be perceived

WE LIKE LOOKING GOOD (whether we are good or not)

LETS COMPARE THE "GUYS"

1. A bad guy seems like fun, the good guy seems like less fun
2. Bad Guy seems entertaining, the good guy seems less entertaining
3. Bad guy seems like a challenge, the good guy seems like less of a challenge
4. Bad Guys seems like a woman's obvious choice for today, the good guy seems like he'll be there when she done with Mr Bad

IMAGE IS EVERYTHING

A guy with a new Benz and BMW living in a $500,000 house and in debt up his ass looks way better than a debt free man who drives a Corolla, lives in a $100,000 home and has $500,000 in the bank

IT SEEMS RATIONAL that only in the dictionary should Bad come before Good (when describing anything at all)

But thank God our women don't seem to be that rational

My name is Fudgie Springer aka Gyalsta and ......

I AM BAD AND PROUD

FUCKING MULTIPLE WOMEN

Multiple Sex partners ....

Growing up as a likkle yute most of us looked up to any man that we thought were a gyallis or have a lotta a women or who seemed like they could get any woman they wanted and we aspired to be in that same situation sooner than later.

I remember one day as a Juvenile I saw my father and his 3 girlfriends playing dominoes at the house and I was like

"POPS A DI BOSS!!!! I WANNA BE JUST LIKE HIM WHEN I GROW UP!!!"

see that people parents can still be role models, I love my dad :) (even though Pops would be the first one to say he don't know why I'm this way lol him nah try tek no credit)

Some of us as grown men are still aspiring and hoping while some of us are living the life or have lived the life ...

Before I delve too deep in the topic let me take this opportunity to send out a public apology to:

ANY WOMAN I FUCKED JUST ONCE:

a) I forgot about you

b) I misplaced your number (if I had it)

c) Me not keeping in touch is not an indication that the sex was bad

d) Promoters in your city don't bring me there often enough

e) Your significant other was a friend so I had to "break the news" to him [yu have yu good good man and yu gimme some a di pussy shame on you lol]

Please don't look at my reasons in a negative light since in most instances it wasn't my fault. I have some great one time experiences and to the participants I am forever appreciative.

Since Sherlene buss me as 10 yr old nerd til today I have a a wonderful sexual life which gives the the expertise to speak on such this subject.

Let me share some knowledge

1. MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS OVER A LONG TIME PERIOD IS NORMAL

2. MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS AT THE SAME TIME IS NOT AS ATTRACTIVE AS IT MAY SEEM

3. MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS IS A HUGE RESPONSIBILTY THAT NOT EVERY MAN CAN MANAGE

Lets break this down if you fuck 20 girls in 10 years ... keep that shit to yourself .. thats just boring and this blog is not referring to your situation. Its geared to you if you fucking 3 or more girls in rotation and every now and then you add a new pussy to keep di ting fresh and progressive.

OK let analyse this scenario

JOHN WHORE has 3 girlfriends .... he lives with one and see the other 2 on a regular basis ... Mr Whore also parties a lot and often meets attractive woman who also find him attractive and are not opposed to sharing some good times ...

Does this sound familiar to you?

Do you think John Whore is living it up?

Do you envy Mr Whore?

Do you pity Mr Whore?

As attractive as this may seem to some of us male chauvinistic pigs, If you put some real thought into it ... I'm not sure I would want to be like Mr Whore.

Here is why ....

Old Jamaican people say:

"don't put yu hat weh yu cyaa reach it"

Satisfying a woman sexually is not a given for every man, Sex is a selfless act where it is your responsibility to satisfy your partner.

Now if the satisfaction question was posed to your partner or partners would everyone's answer be symmetrical?

Can you have sex with 3 women in one day and guarantee that each one is satisfied???

No need to answer because your ego is prompting you to lie to me

How about after you cum once,your woman wants more and you are needed to go maybe 3 more rounds. Can you hang?

I have to respect "One Burners" for the simple fact that they accept there limitations while some of us lie to ourselves

Satisfying a woman is work ... satisfying multiple women is more work ...

Walk b4 yu can crawl ... completely satisfy one before you take up the challenge of two

EMOTIONALLY, FINANCIALLY , PHYSICALLY

food for thought

SEX: wrong or right?

SEX



Lets talk about sex aka fucking aka getting laid aka .........  you get the idea



when is it right? when is it wrong? is it ever right? is it ever wrong? what age is a good age to start?



All these questions so many variations of answers



But you reading my blog so guess what?



A GYALSTA ANSWERS WE AGGO WORK WID!!!



Some of you know some don't but will after you read this ...



I lost my virginity when I was 10 years old to the 24 year old woman that my mom hired to take care of me and my siblings while she was off to school.



Some people could argue that I was raped



Some would go as far as saying Sherlene (my housekeeper) was a pedophile



My views on the situation are a little more "POSITIVE" if you will



Thanks to her I have over 20 years of important " FUCK EXPERIENCE"



So Sherlene bless up yuself if yu come across this blog



As the brother who strives for the ultimate "whoreship" when asked if I think sex is wrong whether it falls under the label of "fornication" "adultery" etc



My obvious answer is as long as sex is between two or more consensual adults (of different gender) it cyaa wrong



If you are a religious person I cant believe that on Judgement day ...  God would say ...



"Tom Jones you lived a wonderful life, You were good , you were honest , you were generous, you followed my commandments, but you didn't marry your girlfriend of ten years Sherry and you guys insisted on having sex so you cannot enter the pearly gates"





MOVE UUNU BLOODCLAAT AND GO WEH !!! FUCKING IS GOOD!!!!!!! GETTING LAID IS RIGHT!!!!





Alright now Tom Jones situation may seem somewhat OK to some of y'all ... what about cheaters.. is sex right then?



SO WHO CHEATS?



I don't wanna put you on the spot since chances are YOU DO ...



YES I am definitely talking about "YOU"



But before you get upset just know that I am on your side ...



Regardless of what your reasons are .. I dont think you are doing anything wrong...



Some people cheat because they are ADDICTED to sex ...

Some people cheat because something is lacking from their relationship

Some people are just WHORES that don't give a fuck

 

but I guarantee that in every instance they do that shit because the WANT TO ..



QUESTION ON THE TABLE ... If doing what makes you happy hurts someone else's feelings ARE YOU WRONG?



If you accept a promotion at your job that your best friend and co-worker ,who's been with the company 10 years prior to you, just knew he or she was going to get. ARE YOU WRONG?





Sex wrong in my opinion when 2 man a fuck ... DAT WRONG

Sex is wrong when an adult takes advantage of someone under the age of consent DAT WRONG (with the exception of Sherlene she cool)

Sex is wrong if family members fuck ...  DAT SHIT IS JUST GROSS!!!





Any other scenario ... per FUDGIE SPRINGER .... Free water way .... Let fuck be free as Matterhorn say