Ladies have you ever cheated before?
Please don't be offended if I tell you that I already know the answer
Lets try another question:
Will you cheat in the future?
If I was a betting man I would say both questions have the same answer.
The funny thing about this is, most women (probably including you) would disagree with or maybe even find my words insulting.
Why??????
Is it conscience ? is it guilt ? are you in denial ?
Think about my words, if need be, take the time to re-read my words
Why did you assume that my speculated answer to both questions was "YES" when it could have been simply "NO" ?
Lets revisit the title
ONE MAN TO DI PUM PUM (myth or reality) ?
This is a popular song done by new music sensation Gaza Slim
I chuckle when I think about the following question:
How many people think that Gaza Slim is only sleeping with one man?
and in the parties how many of the women who react to this song are keeping it real?
I have had the "luxury" if you will of being on all sides of this issue. I have been the man she is cheating with, I have been the man she cheated on and in all fairness I have been the man she is faithful to (the last instance is the least common).
I have always had the stance that every man who straight cheats, but I also think that women are way better cheaters. Most men get caught up at some point but I know women personally who have cheated for years and never get caught.
This is scary to a man who knows (thinks he knows) that he has a special, faithful woman at home.
I had a discussion recently with a young lady and it was very disturbing to me
The subject at hand was a woman who cheated on her man with a mutual friend. My stance was you cannot blame the man mainly because
1. She was the one in the relationship
2. It is very difficult for a man to turn down pussy (we ain't gay)
- Her stance was that a woman can do what ever a man can do sexually.
- Her stance was if a woman gets a sexual offer (which most women get several everyday) if she feels like fucking she gonna fuck.
She was 100% right. But guess what...
I don't think any man wants a woman who thinks that way.
- Ask the men who fuck the most women if they want a woman who thinks like that and we all know the answer.
- Ask a man who can and will be committed to one woman if he want's a woman who thinks like that
Call us hypocrites....
whatever!
but Beenie Man said it best in his song on Stephen Mcgregor's catalog riddim
"A woman cannot do what a man does and still be considered a good woman"
One Man to di pum pum ?
If you are a woman only you can accurately answer this and no matter what you decided I still love you
