Monday, 23 August 2010

REAL FRIENDS NEVER CHANGE


At times our inspirations comes from the most unexpected places.


"Real friends never change" This was the title of a party that was held in Pittsburgh recently a party that I told people to attend, one that I wasn't planning on attending, one that I honestly never took the time to read the flyer thoroughly enough to even notice how true and inspiring the title was.


To be honest I didnt even notice the title.


Lets think about this for a minute:


REAL FRIENDS NEVER CHANGE


I'm sure if we all think about this we may come up with different interpretations of this bold statement, we may not all even agree with this statement.


I think you cannot be too literal when brainstorming this.


Everybody changes, You are not the same today as you were 10 years ago and to be quite honest if you were it would mean that you haven't progressed. So change when it comes to people is as inevitable as aging and dying.


So it would be an accurate statement if I say "All friends change" (which would seem contradictory to my title)



So let us elaborate on our title and say "ALL FRIENDS CHANGE BUT REAL FRIENDS REMAIN FRIENDS IN THE MIDST OF ALL THE CHANGES"


I started my career in music about 6 years ago and a DJ who could barely mix who was too shy to talk on the mic, Today I am known by many, I have played music in many places all over the world, I can mix, MC and keep a party moving by myself and I even have song songs that get rotation in dancehalls all over the world.


Have I changed ?? Hell Yeah!!!!!!!!


Do I consider myself successful? Not by any stretch of the imagination because I have a long way to go to achieve my goals


Am I hype? I don't think so (But I am very confident and I'm sure there are people who would disagree with me)


Think about yourself... Think about your present situation and your situation 6 years ago


Think about the people who claimed to be your friend during that time period


Today a lot of those people you wouldn't say are your friends


Those people are not your friends today because they were never really your friend at all


REAL FRIENDS NEVER CHANGE even though ALL FRIENDS CHANGE because REAL FRIENDS REMAIN FRIENDS IN THE MIDST OF ALL THE CHANGES